When you go shopping, go to school, go to sporting events, go to
concerts, and so on, do you see girls whom you would like to know
better? Here are some steps that should help you attract girls...
(1)Try not to stutter when you are talking, talk confidently.
(2). Smile. Make sure you smile nicely, if you look at a girl or catch her eye
(3).Don't act fake. Be congruent to your image
(4).Look at her. If you
ignore a girl you like, she will think that you are not attracted to her
and that you are not man enough to face her(shy fool) hence move on. If
you look at the girl, and she catches you, go talk to her. If you don't
within a few seconds, it will come off as creepy. But if you do, it
will seem spontaneous and fun.remember to put a smile on your face.
(5). Listen to her. Conversation is a two-way street. Find
commonalities this way. Not just favorite things, but common goals,
dreams, and challenges.it is logical that -humans' only talk to people
who listen to us hence this will make her have interest to talk to you.
(6). Dress nice! Girls take a great look at guys
dressing,they select only those that are outstanding.this is because
they like guys they will talk about.(simply be presentable.).it makes feel more confident about yourself.
(7).Smell good! Shower daily or every other day, wear
deodorant, brush your teeth, perhaps use some cologne (but don't overdo
it). She will most likely attach that scent to you, and remember you for
it.
(8). Tease her. Depending on how attractive she is, she
will have a certain amount of experience with guys trying to "get with"
her. When you begin conversation, act light, fun, and actively show your
disinterest in her as a mate. By doing this, she stops putting up her
barriers that get rid of the hundreds of guys that may approach her in a
year, and she starts listening to you as a normal person, and she can
become attracted through your conversation. How you actively show
disinterest is you tease her. Things like telling her her nose wiggles
when she talks(in a teasing, almost "haha that's so cute" condescending
attitude), or like looking to her friends and saying, "Is she always
like this?(pointing to your target)?" Always say these things with a
smile, of course. Saying these things disqualifies you as a mate at
first so she will listen to you and shows your higher value and
non-neediness.
(9). Ask her about her interests in a unique way not the commonly used, But Don't just ask questions. Talk about yourself in an interesting, high value way.(Not bragging).you will end up impressing nobody but yourself.
(10).Don't buy girls drinks or anything else when first meeting her.
It shows neediness(which is unattractive. If you are needy, then you
must not have girls in your life. If you don't, then there must be
something wrong here. That is what subconsciously goes through her
mind.)On the contrary, get her to be attracted enough to you to buy YOU a
drink. Look up the "Five Questions Game.
(11). Don't be needy! You are a cool dude and you know it.
Just the fact that you are reading this shows you want to improve.
Self-improvement is great and it is great you want to become a better
person. So, you are a cool person. Don't act like she is the only girl
out there. It helps.
(12). Be fun, flirty, have a great time, and remember, you are the man!
(13). Don't try too hard, girls can sense that. Be confident! If a girl doesn't like you for who you are, then she probably isn't a very pleasant girl.
(14). Have a good personality.
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